From Mark Remond: This is another comment by Dennis expanded into a separate post. It was prompted by a comment from reader “Greg” on the Feb. 9 post, “AdditionalThoughts on Joan and The Protocols”:
Thanks for the article. So you sought out this type of relationship and actually found a girl who came from that type of family background? I feel like that is too rare of a chance to not have more of a story line to it. Did you have to search for Femdom clubs then looked for a girl within that community? Did you advertise online for female led relationships and she responded? I just feel like it is so rare to come across a girl who wants an FLR let alone comes from an entire family background with that as the focus.—Greg
To which Dennis responded: “Some of it was just being lucky, but Nancy and i met at a NOW (National Organization of Women) meeting when we were in college. Women were naturally suspicious of the motives of males who suddenly showed up at NOW meetings, but i worked hard for the group and was accepted by them—and by Nancy. i was raised in an all-female household so, naturally, i had a much different view of Female authority than did most men. i was looking for a strong, in-control Woman and i found Her in Nancy. While i was predisposed to follow, She was predisposed to lead, what with coming from a family where the Women were firmly in charge. It all just clicked for us.
But in a further note to me, Dennis amplified a bit on this answer, and in a way that may be helpful to other guys seeking “in-charge women”:
“i'm tempted to give advice on how a man can find a strong, leading Lady. The problem is, as I see it, that too many men go about it too aggressively. For instance, we have too many men who show up at the Women’s Center wanting to “be a slave” and so on, only to be thrown out! It's not what Women want. What they do want is a man who they can control, but one they can control in a practical context, not a fantasy context. There is a difference. As for the Center, we know of seven FLR couples who met at the Center and now have great relationships.”